You have probably already heard… Taylor Swift is coming to town this weekend. Her massive “Eras Tour,” which promises to take listeners on a journey through the various eras of her career, has the Tri-state buzzing with excitement as restaurants add special menu items, hotels and airbnbs are well past sold out within sixty miles of the city, and thousands of fans without tickets are making plans to stand on the banks of the Ohio River and sing along outside the stadium.
One of the biggest considerations for attendees is what to wear to the concert. The idea is that you plan your outfit to represent your favorite era and/or album of Swift’s career.
Clothing is important. It can create an atmosphere and set a tone. It helps us express ourselves and lets others know who we are. Clothing can be protective for certain work and hobbies. Some clothing, just by wearing it, provides access to places off limits to others. It happens when I wear my black pastor shirt at a hospital or retirement community all the time.
When meeting with seminary intern Pastor Laura, one of the first things she asked about was if there was any type of staff dress code at Lord of Life. I told her, “Dress for the day.” I let her know that I don’t wear a pastor collar shirt every day and don’t expect her too, either. “Dress for the day.” When preparing to get a pie in the face at VBS, meeting someone for lunch, going to a concert or game to support a LOL kid, or building a ramp on a home as part of the Appalachia Service Project trip, she may want to wear something appropriate to the activity. And yes, it is totally appropriate to wear the pastor shirt and clergy collar underneath the Lord of Life “You are loved” tie dye for the Pride Parade.
These ideas spill into how we “dress” our space at Lord of Life, too. What do our campus and building, words and songs, visual art and signage say about who we are and what we believe? More about that in a future blog.
The apostle Paul explores the types of apparel that all of us are invited to wear every day in Colossians 3:12-14. “Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience… and don’t forget to fill up your pockets and hearts with forgiveness and love” (my paraphrase).
Talk about love and this Spirit-inspired attire isn’t just for special occasions. God’s inclusive and permeating love centers our whole lives together. It is God’s example of unconditional love through Jesus which provides the template and example of how we can love and care for one another. These words – compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience – give us a glimpse of what this outfit will look like.
Sometimes, these words don’t fit us well. They may feel like a borrowed shirt or shoes that are too big to fill. We have to alter our lives to make them fit better or feel comfortable. The presence of God and the joy of a faith community help us suit up and join the party.
How are you dressing for the day ahead? What are you wearing? Are you putting on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience? Why or why not? This is a great season to try on something new or refresh your wardrobe. God reminds us that this is the era of love!
Putting on love,
Pastor Lowell
“Can anyone find the past schedule? I’m pretty sure the boxes are still in the attic. Who handled registration?” We couldn’t remember the details, but we couldn’t wait to have the feeling again of joyfully coming together as a community and sharing the light of Jesus. Due to COVID and the changing landscape that followed, It has been three years since Vacation Bible School (VBS) overtook every inch of Lord of Life. We deeply missed the Holy Spirit working in such a powerful and exciting way. We are thrilled that 2023 ushered in a new era of VBS!
Our adventure into space was “Stellar!” Stellar means exceptionally good or having a star-like quality. Or as one student described what he thought was stellar, “It’s like mac and cheese!” Yes, perfect goodness! I think we achieved that on our journey, but it wasn’t because it was a meticulously planned or executed space-themed extravaganza (but that was pretty awesome!). It was because of the group of teens and adults that came together to share their spirits, talents, time, love, and faith in Jesus with everyone they encountered in the weeks of preparation and throughout this week. It spread through the kids throughout the experience, and you could feel that same energy of kindness and enthusiasm head out the door each day and into the community. Isn’t that exactly what Jesus calls us to do?
Every day we explored how Jesus’ light shines in the world. (Warning, you may want to step back if you talk about this with anyone who attended VBS, we tend to break out in big hand motions and possibly a song to show how his light shines all over the world!)
“Shine Jesus’ light in the darkness! Sadness and hurt are in our lives. Jesus, the light of the world, offers the promise of peace and joy.
Shine Jesus’ light when people don’t get along. Conflict can pull us apart. God calls us to live in unity, treating others with compassion, kindness, and grace.
Shine Jesus’ light when good things happen. We tend to remember the big things we are thankful for in life. However, life is made up of countless little blessings. Where or in what did you see God today?
Shine Jesus’ light when people are sad. Sorrow is part of our world. Jesus comforts and heals.” (Group Publishing)
How can you experience and share the light that comes with following Jesus?
Someone asked me today to tell them about VBS. My heart just swelled, and I said, I wish everyone could experience it. It’s hard to describe. It’s more of a warm, comforting, smiling-to-yourself feeling. If you couldn’t be there, a picture is truly worth 1,000 words. You can capture the feeling. Be sure to check out our Facebook (Lord of Life Lutheran Church, West Chester) and Instagram pages (lord_of_life_ohio). There will be many pictures in the next issue of the Lifeline, too.
We may be tired from the week, but it’s a good tired. One that lets us rest in the knowledge that Jesus’ light is shining in these beautiful children, families, and volunteers. When we get mired down in the darkness of our circumstances or things happening in the world, there is still so much hope, kindness, and love continuing to spread when we open our hearts to the light that is in Jesus.
Shining Jesus’ light with you,
Angie Seiller, Director of Faith Formation
I grew up in a small town, but I never saw myself staying there for long. I spent my childhood impatiently waiting for the moment I could trade the boring, slow movement of rural america for the rush of a bigger city; the twangy banjo music at the county fair for stadium concerts with rock stars and concert halls filled with classical music and musicals; the boring clothes from Sears and JC Penney for … ok who am I kidding? I’ve never been good at clothes. But I digress.
My tastes and thoughts have always leaned toward the modern and new or the ancient and grand, or at least toward amenities that weren’t available in northwest Ohio. So you can imagine my shock as I’ve entered into my middle age and my favorite band is a bluegrass group called Nickelcreek. Brian and I discovered them when I went to the MusicNow Festival at Music Hall a few years ago and Chris Thile, one of the members of Nickelcreek, was headlining a performance. I was there to hear something else the symphony was playing. I don’t even remember what it was now, because I went home with Chris’s virtuosic mandolin playing in my head, searching through his career on Google to listen to every recording with every group he’s played with.
The thing about Chris Thile is that he has a brilliant knowledge of traditional music, and traditional bluegrass music, and can play it flawlessly. But he also understands at a deep level that music, like so many other things, is living and breathing and continues to evolve and grow. He is able to play bluegrass just like it was played a hundred years ago or a Bach partita on the mandolin instead of the violin, but he chooses to use those as starting points to move forward and create new music with the old building blocks. He shucks the parts that don’t make sense anymore or that impede progress. Because of that, I have a new appreciation for older bluegrass, the twangy county fair stuff, because I can see where it can go in the future. I have a renewed appreciation for Bach because I see how I can use those pieces to create something new.
As we listen to Jesus’ parables and see him pull the rug out from under the elders of his time, we hear him take the old testament law to their natural conclusion and then use the building blocks to create something new. The basic tenets of one God who loves us and created us are still there, but there is a new major guiding principle: if any of the laws are getting in the way of loving each other, you should love each other first and ask questions later. “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this, all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” John 13:34-35
It is amazing that 2,000 years later, this still feels modern and forward-thinking. Many of us have spent the last two millennia debating what the Bible does and doesn’t say about various rules and regulations, causing wars and genocide and personal turmoil for thousands of people. In the end, it is much simpler, and feels better, too, to listen to the clear words Jesus said. “Love one another.” As Paul explained to the Romans, “Love is the fulfillment of the law.”
Yours in Christ,
John Johns, Music Director
As tears welled in her eyes, she said, “For 30 years as a teacher, I taught inclusion and empathy. I just feel like we are going backward.”
“I am an extreme introvert, and this is way beyond my comfort zone, but I feel that I need to do this. So many people have been rejected by family because of who they are” another woman told me as we brought up the last of the line of Pride marchers and as she carried her “free mom hugs” sign.
June is Pride Month. This past weekend we were part of Hamilton Pride which included a march and an afternoon filled with activities. Lord of Life hosted a booth with bubbles, stickers, and conversations about welcoming and affirming congregations. There were countless expressions of thanks. They didn’t know some churches affirm and accept LGBTQ+ people. They only knew disappointment and rejection by their church.
That’s what fear does. It robs us of deep connections and peace in knowing and affirming others as Jesus taught us and sharing that same affirming love with others. When we step beyond that fear, past the stereotypes, blanket assumptions, and our internal voice that wants to stand in judgment of a perceived wrong, we can find a sense of peace that is hard to comprehend.
As I have walked the long journey of outside acceptance with my family, friends, and church community, some people have had the courage to ask, “Why do we need a Pride month? Why do we have to have this flashy, big emphasis on the LGBTQ community? I am fine with loving the sinner and hating the sin, but this is too much.” I appreciate the opportunity to have a dialogue. I didn’t get it at first either. Learning more helps dissipate misunderstandings and fear.
Why Pride? It is because lives depend on it. There are youth that live in fear of being found out, or grappling with the idea that something is inherently wrong with them, or they have been rejected by their family and sadly, by their church family too. They are burdened that they must change to be palpable for a straight world. The fear, the hiding, the huge emotions that must be dealt with in isolation, can be devastating and life-altering. According to the Trevor Project, LGBTQ+ youth have an increased risk of suicide. Not because of who they are but because of how they are mistreated and stigmatized.
One gay man described his journey of coming out. If he could have experienced just one rainbow flag on a teacher’s desk or an example of a thriving, queer adult that he could look up to, it could have changed the years of fear and absence of trust that consumed his life. Sweeping it under the rug or erasing any signs of the LQBTQ+ community will not change who God created him to be. Imagine if those awful years were replaced by hundreds of examples of people living life to the fullest in a Pride parade or festival, or especially by a community of faith that shows affirming love. A community that drowns out the hate and fear with the message that Jesus loves all of us always, boldly, and unconditionally, just as we are.
Last night at the Service for Affirming and Healing, Rev, Suzanne LeVesconte of Trinity Episcopal in Hamilton described how she felt emotionally unsettled for days after peacefully standing in front of hate-filled protesters for just one hour at Hamilton Pride.
As an ally, her intense feelings came from one hour, can you imagine not just one hour but a week, a month, or years of this ugly messaging being hurled at you? We are complicit when we don’t stand up to hate. We need Pride.
Love IS stronger than fear and hate. Jesus is our ultimate example. The commands to love one another (John 13:34) and to love our neighbor as ourselves (Matthew 22:39) were given and modeled by Jesus. We don’t need to fully understand or think we are somehow betraying long-held beliefs. Step into love. Learn more. Affirm. Stand against fear.
Standing with you in love,
Angie Seiller, Director of Faith Formation
Pictured: Pastor Lowell Michelson and John Johns, Music Director, drowning the hate with messages of love.
Fourteen years ago this week, one of my church members was murdered in our gathering space on a Sunday morning as we prepared to begin Pentecost worship. Some Christians were disturbed that his women’s reproductive health practice included abortion services and labeled him an evil threat and worse. For years, various groups and individuals plotted strategies to destroy his medical practice and inflict injury to him and his staff. One finally succeeded.
Among the trauma and grief that followed, the Christian witness of love and inclusion at Reformation Lutheran (ELCA) was made public. We had not been private about who we were in any way, but now it was on display for the world to see. Many offered words of support and encouragement, while others chose to offer admonition or hate. Even some family and friends chose to leverage this moment as a corrective to who I was as a pastor or person.
Sometimes, we want to keep our Christian faith private. We worship, serve, give, and pray, not wishing to draw any attention to ourselves. This is good and faithful, but be aware that sometimes following Jesus is a public act. However, as we go about our daily tasks, the Spirit of God uses us as a vessel to bring more peace, hope, love, and joy into the world. Sometimes, living out our Christian faith even leads us into public spaces boldly declaring God’s unconditional love for all.
Some of Jesus’ first public words in Matthew’s account remind us of our public witness. “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead, they put it on its stand, giving light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:14-16). Even as you read this, you are the light of the world.
My colleague in ministry and our Director of Faith Formation Angie Seiller recently wrote about why we are tie-dying rainbow T-shirts, passing out water at the Hamilton Pride Festival, and marching in two different Pride parades this month.
“Sharing unconditional acceptance is a year-round journey but Pride Month in June is an additional opportunity to share God’s love and healing affirmation… By outwardly proclaiming God’s love for all, we can send a life-changing message to those in the LGBTQ+ community, their families, and friends. We desperately need voices that spread God’s inclusive love to counteract the messages from so many Christians that condemn those made in God’s image. It is a small step in the healing process.”
I know that we’re all at different places on our journey. We’re also gifted differently in the ways that we share the love of Jesus. That is one of the greatest gifts of life in community!
Wherever you go and whatever you do, I pray that you continue to know the love of Christ that will not let you go and that this hope in the risen Jesus Christ continues to radiate from you to the world.
Shine where you are!
Pastor Lowell
School is out for the summer for most students, but a year of learning is just beginning for Laura Applegate, Lord of Life’s new Intern Pastor. A long-distance student at Wartburg Theological Seminary in Dubuque, Iowa, she continues her path to a Master of Divinity degree as she joins the church staff this June. Starting this summer, the LOL community will be Laura’s new classmates.
Laura is an online seminary student, spending the last two years logging on for learning from her home in Northern Kentucky where she lives with her spouse David and their two children, Alex (10) and Katie (8). She is looking forward to being in-person with the people of Lord of Life and will commute to West Chester for the internship.
While the Ohio River separates her home and work, this won’t be a problem for Laura. Described by her family and friends as authentic, inquisitive, and loyal, she has also been called a “bridge builder,” due to her natural instincts to find ways to connect people.
“The underlying theme for what I like to do the best is helping and caring for people,” Laura says. “I used to work at Fidelity [financial services corporation], but even there I was in the department that was customer focused and all about helping people.”
When Laura does get a moment to relax, her favorite way to spend downtime is surrounded by her extensive support system of family and friends. Her parents divorced and remarried while she was very young, so she has been blessed with a blended family, including four parents and six siblings.
“I love spending time with my family and friends. My family is a ‘yours, mine and ours’ kind of family,” Laura explains. “I have four amazing parents. I'm so grateful for them and they are all near me in Northern Kentucky.”
For fun, Laura enjoys movies, cheering on her favorite sports teams, and reading. “We love to go to the movies. David and I actually met at a movie theater,” she shares. “I am also a Cincinnati sports fan—I love the Bengals. I love the Reds. I’ve been to a couple FC Cincinnati and Cyclones games. And the Florence Y’all baseball games are really fun,” she says.
Get your oven fired up to welcome Laura. She delights in comfort foods and has a sweet tooth, especially for pecan or peanut butter pie, Reeses and lattes. “I like sweets of all kinds, except lemon,” she says.
More than anything, Laura is sweet on getting to know the Lord of Life family. “I love people,” she says. “I love connecting with people and building relationships. It brings me so much joy to connect with another Christian and be able to grow our faith and learn together.”
Meet Laura at her first official worship as Intern Pastor on June 18. The Lord of Life community has great plans to live, share, and celebrate the love of Jesus as we embark on this year of building bridges together.
Laura Applegate was interviewed by Tera Michelson for this blog post.
We’re wrapping up another school year at Lord of Life Christian Preschool and I wanted to share some thoughts with you all as we send the kids off for the summer, whether they are coming back in the fall, or moving up into kindergarten somewhere else. It has been an amazing year, and I can’t begin to say how grateful I am to everyone who has made it possible.
First, I love my job. I love everything about seeing the kids every day. You can’t be unhappy being around 3 and 4 and 5-year-olds. They’re so optimistic. I get to do God’s work every day. Their positive attitude, their thrill for life, and the wonderment that kids bring to everything. They always tell the truth and they are always so genuine. The best part of my day is seeing the light bulbs come on when they learn something new.
And we have more kids than we’ve ever had before. With 158 kids enrolled this year, we were able to start some new activities and bring back some old ones that hadn’t happened in a few years. The multicultural night was a new event this year, and it celebrated the diversity of all our families. We have 11 nationalities represented among our kids. We brought back our sweetheart dance, had parents come back in the building, built community with the LOL staff, Mother’s day teas, thanksgiving feast, pumpkin carving, and the Christmas program.
We were able to serve our kids better this year because some generous grants made it possible to raise salaries for teachers and provide retention bonuses; do upgrades to the playground, including a nature space; buy some new educational games, new furniture for classrooms and the fellowship hall, and new automated soap and paper towel dispensers throughout the building.
Partnering with Lord of Life has been amazing. Most churches don’t have a preschool because it isn’t a money maker and that is what they look for. The church is so generous with giving us space and resources. Children’s chapel with Pastor Lowell and Angie is such a blessing. I couldn’t ask for a better working relationship. Lord of Life staff forges a relationship with Preschool families whether they are church members or not and it makes all the difference.
We have a great staff who really connects with the children and loves them and pours themselves into them. They give a lot of their time, and everyone knows this is more than just a job for them. They are constantly learning and growing so they can keep the curriculum fresh and current.
We can’t wait to see all the new faces next year. We truly love each of the kids and their families. We are like a family and have created a whole community, and it includes the kids and their family members, too. The building at Lord of Life is alive every day with music and learning and spreading love in the world.
Blessings,
Paula Drake, Preschool Director